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October 27, 2022What does Neptune opposition Ascendant mean? Effector or Affected
Key themes of natal Neptune opposition ascendant
- Can greatly influence or be deeply affected by your environment and the people in it.
- Selflessness vs selfishness – Tyrant vs Martyr – Boundaries Vs Boundless
- Development of a firm sense of self is needed- seek help for any codependent tendencies, prone to addict/ codependent type of relationships.
- You can either act nefarious or be used by those who are immoral, unable to tell the difference between a friend and (foe) enemy
- Highly emotionally sensitive can use this to deceive others, or others may trick you easy because of this trait
- Must learn to stand up for yourself / or to not take advantage of others just because you can
- Avoid being overly idealistic, ask questions, and don’t assume anything, as this can cause disappointment, especially in relationships.
- You would benefit from depth psychology and a practice of self-love and lifelong personal development. Know your worthy of love
- Troubles in childhood may have given you the wrong impression about telling the truth in relationships
- Read all legal contracts before signing; get all verbal contracts in writing before starting work to stop you from getting caught out.
- Make sure all relationships have an equal footing, as you can be dominated by stronger types. Also, do not give your power away because your feel you are madly in love.
- Get to know people before you make firm commitments, research and look before you leap.
Celebrities with this placement
Amy Adams, Lindsay Lohan, Morgan Freeman, Billie Piper, David Carradine, Keke Palmer, Richard Pryor, Kirk Douglas, Rosa Parks, Misha Collins and Tennessee Williams
What does Neptune opposition Ascendant mean? Effector or Affected, continued
Natal Neptune’s opposite ascendant and conjunct descendant adds a unique flavour to an individual’s personality.
Relationships are thrown under the spotlight and often start under peculiar circumstances.
This placement works two ways; you become the used or the user.
Neptune, opposite Ascendant, can bestow you with deep sensitivity and perception.
Allowing you to quickly and successfully read the room, as they say, and innately be in tune with the needs of others.
You can have deep spiritual, karmic-type relationships where you and your partner start mystical or alternative healing organisations together.
Or your connections can be highly deceptive and equally destructive as all parties mislead each other about their authentic intentions, causing a lot of emotional pain.
Relationships may be based on addictions or recovery, wither way they will have many ups and downs.
Intuitive awareness
You sense beyond words, and actions, to the core of a person’s intentions, inspirations and needs.
This draws people to you as they feel, truly seen and appreciated by you.
You can quickly get through people’s defiance mechanisms and see behind even the most explosive and caustic words.
You can have deep spiritual, karmic-type relationships where you and your partner start mystical or alternative healing organisations together.
Or your connections can be highly deceptive and equally destructive as all parties mislead each other about their authentic intentions, causing a lot of emotional pain.
Relationships may be based on addictions or recovery, wither way they will have many ups and downs.
Deep healing
Ultimately, a lot of personality and soul healing can lead to growth during or after these relationship breakdowns.
These serve to shatter your preconceptions and any illusions about yourself and others.
Your relations with your parents, siblings, friends and other family members may have been scattered with miscommunication.
Causing unstable associations you form in your life until you deal with the initial wounds created from any dishonesty, rejection, or abuse in your early life.
One of both parents could have been addicts, or you were born into some other type of dysfunction which has caused you to be confused about how you should be in relationships.
Telling lies could simply come easier to you than speaking the truth, due to early examples.
Neptune opposite the Ascendant in focus
How this placement of Neptune’s opposite ascendant, conjunct descendant, plays out in your life depends on all other aspects of your birth chart.
But in general, you must always check any legal agreements you enter into.
Because they could be loopholes or hidden terms that you agree to when signing if you do not thoroughly check contacts.
If you don’t have the time to check the terms, pay someone to do so.
Also, make sure you know the expectations of all you form connections with to prevent fallouts of assumptions.
It is best that you make sure you put your cards on the table, stating clearly your needs, to avoid annoying and bewildering others.
If you’re unclear about anything anyone says or what you read, ask, as going along just because you don’t want to appear foolish or inadequate will backfire.
Build your inner contentment and learn to like and love yourself, warts and all
With this placement of Neptune, opposite Ascendant, some of you may overly rely on others to make you feel good and provide opportunities for you.
For instance, you could be a gifted healer, but you feel you need to be in a partnership to fully use this gift.
Yes, working with others is good, but you can also work solely and carve out your own place in this world without depending on others.
You may also have some trouble with being alone, so you must learn to enjoy and amuse yourself in your own company.
Because an inability to be alone may make you stay in toxic relationships for too long or repeat cycles of abusive and addictive relationships with others.
Yes, it’s good to love everyone, but that doesn’t mean you have to hang out with everyone daily.
Neptune’s opposition ascendant makes you highly creative, so instead of trying to play saviour to all on sundry.
Channel your energy into writing, creating art or films, and playing an instrument.
Practice makes perfect
When you have natal Neptune opposite Neptune, you will need to practice to become good at your art form, so put in the hours before you go on the world stage.
If you enter a competition prematurely, you may get crushed by any criticism you get.
So you must feel capable before attempting anything; you achieve this inner confidence by continually perfecting your skill and knowledge base.
Depth psychology or any therapy too helps you build self-confidence.
Even a commitment to self-healing, introspection and personal development will be beneficial to you.
Channel destructive personality traits and personal habits into constructive pursuits, a practice of self-awareness and a daily routine will benefit you. Look out for the ways you allow the negative to repeat in your life and the deeper reasons you allow this?
At the highest ebb of this placement of natal Neptune opposition ascendant and after the dark nights of the soul, If you are prepared to understand.
Forgive and know yourself. You can find a balanced and, loving and productive relationship with yourself.
Then you will attract the perfect understanding and progressive partner for you, picking who you want to be with out of the soul mates that are out there for you in this world.
And both of your will dwell in productive, respectful unconditional love and harmony.
You can work it out if you stop masquerading and stop falling for the camouflaged.
Neptune Opposite Ascendant in Transit
- Intoxicating relationships- that are sweet at first but bitter as time goes on
- Research before you commit- do a background check- I know how very Scorpio-moon conjunct Pluto of me!!!
- Creating Relationships based on feeling sorry for the other person, make sure your start or continue the connection for the right reasons.
- Or you may pay for it later
- Lies rising to the surface- need to be honest and speak directly
- Need to rethink terms and reconnect with those you’re in close relationships with- betrayal in all types of partnerships revealed
- Legal difficulties- avoid causing trouble for the sake of it and settle all legal and financial matters promptly
- Misleading advice
- Open communication and observation will solve all issues right now
- Maybe a need to play the fool to catch the wise
- Dealings with the underbelly of humanity, gossipers, tittle-tattlers, energy drainers, fly-by-nights, pilfers, and con people, guard your resources and don’t chat about your business, especially about your financial worth etc
- Deceiving others will backfire on you
- Need to develop yourself and partake in self-care, awareness, healing, compassion, forgiveness and understanding.
- If you’re feeling lonely, take up a new hobby. What is it you always want to do, Neptune energy favours, physic development, writing, painting, dancing, playing an instrument- could be cheaper than falling for someone who is insincere and only after all they can get from you
- Some of you may meet the right person for you, but don’t force it and don’t overlook faults.
- If you feel unsure- get the advice of a grounded friend like a plain-talking Capricorn, Scorpio, Gemini, Aquarius, Taurus or Aries….weddings bells may ring!
Neptune Opposite Ascendant in Transit
This is a time of high illusion uncertainty in all types of relationships, even those you have come to rely on; this transit has a similar effect to the full moon.
Human behaviour is unpredictable, to say the less. The honest can become dishonest, the deceiver can become the truth barer, all can be upside down at times. You should be careful when seeking or giving advice.
Even if you go to a seasoned professional at the top of their game, generally, during the Neptune opposition ascendant transit, they can give you flawed advice.
So do your own research and look at everything with a critical eye.
If you can ground yourself enough to listen and trust your gut intuitions at this time
It will guide you to the correct information that fills in any details you’re missing out on.
Trusting in your own novice expertise could save you from great harm in the fields of medicine or alternative healing or high cost in the realms of legal or financial management issues.
Off days
After all, all on this planet are only human and prone to off days and making mistakes.
I’m not saying disregard all information from professionals that come your way at this time. I am saying- it may be best to get a second opinion, even if it’s your own.
Extra caution needs to be taken with legal issues. It may be best to prolong essential matters during the Neptune opposition ascent transit.
But if you cannot, make sure you check all the paperwork and pick battles wisely.
If you can reach an out-of-court settlement, do this as going for a complete win or in terms of a compensation claim.
Pushing to get more could make you get less, and not settling could cost you more. You have been warned.
Also, be guarded against people being overly friendly right now, especially those you have legal contention with.
Because this can be a tactic to weaken your defences, don’t be paranoid, but to be forewarned is to be forearmed.
If someone is usually your enemy and they start acting nice, handing out olive branches, don’t reject them totally.
But keep an eye open; actions, as always, speak louder than words, don’t bow to empty promises or IOU’s.
Any lies in relationships will surface now; you or your partner may be guilty of hiding things from each other that will cause tension in your communications.
It’s best to come clean if you’re the one concealing something.
You may feel the white or overt lie is for the best, but it could create a complete relationship breakdown in the long run, so ask yourself if that’s what you really want.
Infidelity may be involved, or it could just be that other commitments are making you feel disconnected.
Be honest and think of ways together how you can repair the relationship.
Even deep soul mate connections can be fraught at this time; people grow and change over time.
And even if you once could finish each other’s sentences, right now, you could have lost that understanding.
It's not about fault but human growth.
When Neptune opposite ascendant is transiting , it’s time to go back to the drawing board and think of exciting ways to bring the spark back into your relationships.
An issue with addiction or codependency may come up, and a relationship may come to a breaking point because of these issues.
It may be time to join or rejoin a 12-step program or other resources.
Those who need help will gravitate to you but make sure you help in the right ways and for the right reasons not to boost your reputation or self-esteem, as this will backfire.
For instance, you may be attracted to someone who clearly has psychological or emotional issues.
You may decide to become lovers with them based on lustful feelings, but ask yourself if this is best for you and them in the long run, and choose to support them in the right ways.
